Beware- Be Wise-Be Free!

Life is precious.Life is tough.Life is mysterious.Life is wonderful.Life is complex.Life is so mean.sometimes its too complicated but one thing I'm sure of..Life is too short.this is what i described my life.

Facts about youngest child

Some says most of the  youngest child of the family are spoiled adored and pampered.But being the baby of the family is not always as glamourous as many people think.There are some things that you do not wish to be the last born child and some reasons why you should be thankful to be the youngest of the family
Here are some common Facts only youngest child can understand.

1. Clothes are hand-me down- 
   when I was about 6 years old I always envy my older sister because she always had the newest things than us.new shoes,new dress new accesories.Out of jealousy I ask my mom why she always had the new things.and my mom just simply told me,don't worry soon it will be yours when she grow up it will not fit for her anymore.funny but true.as a middle class family,my parents cannot afford  to buy new things for each of us so they just chose to be practical and wise.not bad.
2. They always treats us like a child-In Spite of your age,
   (well Im totally grown up now),they still treat me as if I'm still that little girl in pigtails.despite of how hard you tried to look matured in front of your older sister/brother's friend and they are like"Ohh?!the sisters's little brat.and they begin to think about how pesky and annoying you are.
3. 3. Comparison
   Younger child lives in the shadows of their older siblings.My sister which is 4 years my senior was praise by everyone because she always excels in everything in the house and in the school and even at work.So when I step on my junior class everybody expects that I will be as good as she or at least surpass her level.And everybody will just know you as (sister/brother name)younger sis.
4. Latest person to know about family issue-
   Your parents will not discuss a family problems with you not because they don't trust you but because  they think that you are not matured enough to understand the issue regardless of your age.their confident is still in your older sibling
5. 5. Usually Jolly and Witty-
   As I observed,most of the youngest child are humorous.Meantime, eldest children are serious type.Youngest child brings joy and laughter to the family.
6. 6. Sweet and loving
7. Most of the  last born child are more loving ,more sweeter than other siblings.They are very vocal about thier feeling and always sees the good in you.They are the huggy type person.
8. 7. The messenger
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   The pictures says it all :)

A Mother's Love

There is a woman in our life who will do everything for us.Shes one of a kind.She is our Mother.

A mother simply sees the best within us.She knows when we are happy,when we are sad when we tell lies.When we are afraid.Our mother will love us no matter what.In every situation she was there to support you to lift you to believe in you.Just a weeks ago I had read an open letter from a mother of a guy who had been sentenced to death from the crime he committed and it was a letter full of pain and grief. I remember the last sentence of her letter broke my heart..

" they too have families who love them despite their mistakes."

This made me realized that a mothers love is such a great love.no mistakes,could ever change the way she cares for us.Maybe people may think that we are the worst person in this world,but our mother will still see us to be her beloved innocent baby she had ever knew.

Our mother sacrifice is a lot more greater than anyone else in this planet could do for us.from her pregnancy-from that painful labour -risky delivery and that time she introduces you to the world.Sometimes we tend to ignore some small sacrifice she did to us. Your mother knows there is only 4 pieces of bread left on the table and she choose not to eat with you instead she  lie that she does not like the taste of that bread but the truth is that she knows that its just enough for her four children.When she got mad at  you for insisting that latest brick game you saw on that toy store and she kept on telling you its just a waste of time and money but you know that deep inside her is hurting because she cannot give you the things you wanted because she does not have enough money.

You kept some grudge with your mother for a long time because you think that you are a least favorite among your sibling and you hate her for comparing you with them..but the truth is that she just wanted to challenge you because she believes in you more than you believe in yourself.

You hate your mother for being noisy and loquacious.and you think its better off  without her.but you know that,it is their way of reminding you like " Hey child!I'm always be here with you,as long as you still  hearing this annoying voice of mine it means that I'm still caring for you and still with you."

You rebels to your mother because she interferes in your life.Of course a mother is always a mother who knows and wanted the best for her child.In whatever way she will try to meddle but certainly not to ruin your life. for a mothers love is peace

Sometimes we only see what is wrong with our mother.but we never see behind those smiles maybe there is pain.Try to look at your mother and how you see her?maybe she looks fine and happy.well that's great.look we don't have to say "I love you" to show that we love them.but a simple way could do.when you look at your mom just remember the sacrifices she done for us,the understanding she had for us isn't shes amazing?Sometimes our mother will not show what she really felt even she is hurtin she will managed to smile and say everything is fine.


The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.

Honore de Balzac

Let us not waste the moment we still have them in our side because one day they will be gone too.Be thankful you still hear her voice because one day you will surely miss those voice who once made you feel  you are not alone.Its not yet too late for us.Let us comeback to where we really belong....to our mother's loving arms.remember our mother is always waiting for you....for us....for her children's warm hug.

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL!

Nothing compares to the love of a mother for her children..

How to win over your flesh when tempetd

Everyone of us is not exempted to be tempted.I think this is the nature of a  human being.We desire to do something specially something wrong or unwise.Temptation is not actually a sin but a test for every person to exercise their personality,character and their faith.There are many kinds of temptation you may encounter or you have already been through.It's ridiculous when the more you want to stay away from temptation the more it will come closer to you and when you were tempted you cannot run away from that guilt feeling anymore and this will make you hate yourself even more.Why I choose this topic because I've been through that for how many times and I was able to overcome this weakness and now I want to share to everybody to help them on how to overcome from being tempted.
I have some advice here and hopefully this may help you too.

1. Know your weakness and Stay away from the things/situation which leads you to be tempted.for example if  your weakness is your flesh,I advice you to make yourself busy so you will not have that time to think about your flesh desire.you can focus yourself to your job,hangouts with friends and family.Do not let yourself alone and left nothing to do because doing nothing might leads you to think dirty things.Exercise.the best way to avoid temptation is to staying fit and working out can benefit mental health,relationships,and lead to healthier happier life overall.
2. Be prayerful. Personally I believe that prayers can change everything.Once tempted,Pray..pray  and pray to give you the strength to overcome your weakness.Pray to clean your thought and heart.Pray to give you a wisdom.And pray to change you to be a better person.If you pray sincerely and with faith I told you it will surely granted.
3. Involve yourself in some religious activities.It is helpful if you are not only an ordinary attendees to your local church but an active member of your church.Join some activities like bible study groups,prayer meeting and commit yourself to the ministry you are good at and it helps you grow spiritually.
4. Have someone to talk to.Share your thoughts,your weakness.Seek an advice from a trusted person who is capable enough to guide you and can leads you to the right path.
5. Stay Firm.Temptation is more on emotionally and spiritually battle.You are fighting with your own flesh,mind and soul.but remember that YOU are the only one who can help yourself more than anyone else.If you really wanted to win this battle,then you must have a firm commitment.Bear in mind the consequences for every actions you will do and the guilt feelings that you may feel.You have to think positive.Forgive yourself and don't feel sorry anymore.Once you overcome the temptation I'm telling you,the satisfaction you will feel is really really  priceless! Remember :An over comer  is always a winner!

God bless everyone.